Updated: Feb 10, 2021
“To really love a woman let her hold you till you know how she needs to be touched You gotta breathe her, really taste her till you can feel her in your blood….”
With initial reference to an old Bryan Adams song from 1996 that, as I sat down to write, kept dancing in my head. I could copy the entire text, I won’t though, but all in it rings true to me. So filled with love, warmth, deep intimacy and passion.
Take your woman into you, all that she has to give. To feel her, take all of her in. She is going to honor you for it. Honoring you by opening more and more up to you. Surrerendering her all to you. She will see your strength, trust you and allow you into her entire being, into her soul. It takes true love to dig this deep into another being. To want to go as deep as that. A breathtaking desire and connection to become one with the other.
A woman feels loved when she is seen for who and what she is.
When she is heard, felt, touched, tasted and acknowledged for all she provides, both her physicality and her energy. Her true sensuality and sexuality is awoken by a man who has the strength to honor her instead of finding her inner strength as a queen intimidating to his nature.
WHEN A TRUE MASCULINE MAN ENTERS YOUR LIFE
Even without physical presence a man like that can open you up in ways you had never even imagined. Your inner most dreams and desires will find their place of manifestation in your life. You will trust him, feel no doubt but merely allow yourself to be swept away in each moment by his powerful, resourceful presence and strength. The energetical connection enhances your feelings, makes every cell in your body vibrate with passion for more, more, more. A total submission to the oneness of your souls entering the 7th heaven, brings you up on cloud 9 and releases the sweet nectar of your body. You will find release of guilt and shame, and it will be as if they never existed. They vanish into thin air. As tears stream down your face from that release, you forgive everything you have ever done to hurt yourself. The times you didn’t honor your boundaries. It’s all gone. You find yourself thinking but even more so feeling him to be THE VERY FIRST AND THE VERY LAST, THE ONE. This feeling usually creates the root for fear to build within you. Usually you would get scared of ever loosing this feeling, of your happiness moving away from you again. Your fear of abandonment surfaces.
“She needs somebody to tell her it’s gonna last forever”
NO, not this time. This time you feel safe, secure and protected. You feel that whatever happens you are enriched from this experience. The old you no longer exists, you are born anew and will forever be a changed woman because of this ONE man. All fear is gone because you know there is nothing to fear You are safe, protected and guarded by this warrior, this lion.
WHY IS IT SO IMPORTANT FOR A WOMAN TO KNOW IT’S GOING TO LAST FOREVER?
This feeling might never go away completely, because, again, it has to do with her security and sense of safety. But as we search for guarantees we still acknowledge, deep inside, that it isn’t possible to give any guaranties for anything in this life.
WHY CAN’T WE JUST ENJOY THE MOMENT AND FLOW WITH IT WHILE IN IT?
Due to the simple fact that we fear the future. We are afraid that we are abandoned, betrayed, hurt, left heartbroken, crushed….You name it. You probably have your very own best word for your deepest fear and know it way too well.
This feeling arises when and because… Mainly it’s because you haven’t met the right one. Mainly it’s because when meeting the right one, you will not abandon yourself but stay so very present within you. The right one for you will make you feel yourself even more, sense yourself even deeper and higher, will make sure that you don’t abandon yourself, because he wouldn’t ever want you to. He will ask you to BE EVEN MORE OF WHAT YOU ARE, show him all you are and bring out the very best in you.
WHEN A WOMAN LETS HER GUARDS DOWN AND LET YOU IN
Then you are lost in her sphere. You will crave her, want her, take her, melt into her, become one with her. You will want to be inside her every moment of the day just to be as close to her as possible. Your desire will be more intense than you have ever felt before. She will ignite your flame, your soul through your sacral chakra, from where the energy will travel up into your heart only to flow back down again to amplify your burning passion for her and only her over and over and over again.
“…when you find yourself lying helpless in her arms, you know you really love a woman.”
Warrior of source, King of my heart, master of my body, I call to you. Wake up to your soul’s path for you, on which you are meant to be the protector of your woman, your queen, your goddess. Show her your strength and your courage to commit to her, claim her, love her. See her shine. You are the masculine, the sun that shines upon the feminine moon. She doesn’t shine without your light. Ignite your inner fire and let it radiate out upon her. Let her glow in the dark. Provide her with the supporting light and energy, so she can fulfill her destiny as the light for others in this world.
Listen this song and enjoy how it makes you feel: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hq2KgzKETBw
You bring peace to the world by loving yourself.
Have a beautiful day - Namaste